Confused

[Angel1997]

Hi All

I have just found out I am pregnant, I am now 8 weeks. I have had a few scans because I suffer with existing health issues.

I am struggling mentally at the moment. I am not sure if I want to have my baby. My partner and I have been together for 9 months. We are very happy and there are no issues. But we are concerned of the time we haven't spent together yet and ow things are going to change.

I also struggle with body dysmorphia and am struggling mentally.

I know the decision it mine, but any advice who help anyone can give me at the time would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Get counselling if you can. This is a big decision. I feel you are sitting right on the fence, and I can understand that. On the plus side, you and your partner are happy together. On the minus side, you don't feel ready for motherhood. For some women, pregnancy improves their self image. They feel grateful for a well functioning body. A baby can bring enormous joy and sense of purpose. It is also a very long term commitment. Ideally you will have the support of family and friends nearby.

I agree counselling would help you massively here. It's a big decision and you are trying to make it when you are in a place of uncertainty. Talk it through with someone impartial. There is no right or wrong answer. Good luck.