Hi,
I have a problem with my husband. Although we are married and have a 1 year old, we have never lived together. I have always wanted us to live together like a family, but he never recognises my emotional needs or my loneliness at having to take care of a severely disabled child all alone.
He says he is busy with his studies and spends all his weekends taking exams and his week working. I don't know if he is actually studying or where he works, because he hides everything from me.
I get no child maintenance or support from him and am paying all my rent and bills from my savings. I have asked him to allow me to live with him to save money as we're struggling, but he refuses to. He also locks his bedroom when I visit him.
In the past he lied to me about his nationality and he has no social media or internet presence for me to crosscheck anything about him.
I have never been introduced by him to family or friends, although I am desperate to meet them. I don't understand why I am hidden or a secret. I thought he has a secret wife and a child, but so far I've found no evidence. What shall I do?