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I suffered from severe prenatal depression during my second pregnancy and severe postnatal depression after the birth (both were worse than my first pregnancy). Despite the pregnancy being planned and wanted, I spent most of the time (after 15 weeks) refusing to acknowledge the pregnancy and being very angry and tearful. When I look at my one year old now I am heartbroken to be reminded that I didn't want them.
The first year has been a bit of a blur. I struggled with juggling the demands of a 2 year old and newborn, especially with the lack of sleep (my youngest is still a terrible sleeper). We were also undergoing major house renovations which added to the stress! I spent a lot of the time angry, tearful and with suicidal thoughts. My husband was an amazing rock who stuck by me, despite my best efforts to try to leave him. I feel incredibly guilty for what I have put him through, the lack of patience I showed towards my older child and the struggle to bond with my youngest baby. The depression has robbed me of a lot of precious moments with my young family.
I have received wonderful support from my local perinatal team but I am struggling to get closure for my behaviour and actions. I can't relate to the person I became - it frightens me.
Has anyone been through something similar? How did you come to terms with what happened and move on?
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Closure needed for prenatal and postnatal depression
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needclosure · 04/01/2023 14:35
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