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Can't stop crying feel like hate my partner

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Duemarch2021 · 18/08/2020 15:16

Im 11 weeks pregnant and I feel differently towards my partner. We both wanted children and have been together for 8.5 years. We found out we were pregnant and were shocked but happy. Now i feel like i dont want to be with him. Hes a nice enough person, works full time, decent respectful guy. But i feel like hes still so immature and like he isnt really being supportive. If i ask him to do a job, he will moan if he doesnt want to do it. But i eventually get upset and end up crying about it. Then he does it. Which is good... but just do it in the first place! Preferably without me even asking!

If i get a day when i am sobbing and being argumentative, he acts offended and gets annoyed at me. I explained from the start that my hormones will be everywhere and he needs to support me and he saod he would but hes not! I dont know what to do as i keep asking him to move out and he goes mad saying im going crazy and that were going to be parents so doesnt want to leave. Ive got know where else to go and own the house too i just feel so trapped

OP posts:
bornninthe80s · 26/08/2020 20:06

Hey OP how are you keeping? I've just checked through this board as I've been in a similar position post birth (2 years ago) and came across your post. How have things been the last while? I'm here to talk x

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