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Antenatal depression experience

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Nonymous1 · 16/12/2019 21:05

Hi I'm looking for mums who suffered with prenatal depression but who overcome this after baby arrived.
I'm suffering myself, some days waking up crying that I don't want this baby and I feel awful. I'm 21 weeks
Thank you
Xx

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INeedNewShoes · 16/12/2019 21:11

I wasn't formally diagnosed with it, but I spoke to my midwife about it and she arranged for my Health Visitor to visit before the baby was born to talk things through which was really very helpful.

I was struggling mentally in that I felt as though thick dark grey cloud had descended and it made me apathetic (only bothering to eat for the baby's sake etc.) and I was very concerned that I would struggle once the baby arrived.

I started feeling a little better at about 38 weeks and then once DD arrived the cloud lifted almost completely. I actually really enjoyed my first few weeks/months of being a mum which was such a relief after feeling so glum during pregnancy.

whatsoccuringnow · 16/12/2019 21:18

Hi. I had terrible pre natal depression, it pretty much lifted when my baby was born, but I had to go on medication at 35 weeks pregnant. I'm still on it but other than that all good. It was probably the scariest experience of my life. I hope you feel better soon, have you sought medical attention for it?

Aimee3 · 17/12/2019 22:41

I suffered very badly with antenatal depression and anxiety during my second pregnancy so much so that I terminated my much wanted baby at 9 weeks! This was over a year ago but will stay with me forever! Please keep going and ask for help from your doctor and midwife, it's so important to reach out xx

Nonymous1 · 19/12/2019 20:18

Thank you for your replies!
I've booked 3 terminations but haven't been able to bring myself to go through with it. So there must be something in me that wants this baby.
I haven't been diagnosed officially but it must be what this is. I'm seeing a mental health professional in January so hopefully they will be able to shed some light and/or give me something to balance me out a little
Again thank you, and it's reassuring to know you felt better when baby arrived xx

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