i have a 2 1/2 year old boy and hes wonderful couldnt ask for a better son, i have a 19month old daughter and she was born at 28 weeks and i have NO bond with her, and you all are probably going to say im evil but i dont feel the same about her as i do my son, she is really stressful and sometimes i cant stand being in the same room as her, ive just had a baby on the 12th dec and again i couldnt as for a better baby, its just my daughter, shes started to really do my head in cuz she pulls her OWN hair, she bites her OWN finger's, she head butts thing, she bites her elder brother she drops toys on her elder brothers head,,she snaches her baby brothers bottle off him she tried tipping him out of his moses basket, she will make herself sick by putting fluff or that much food into her mouth, she will just cry for no reason, she will cry until shes sick , if no1 gives her attention she will cry bite smack pull pinch herself until someone gives in, i love the boys sooo much but her not so much, i havent been to see a doctor because i havent got tje confidence to tell someone face to face, due to my past of "no ones interested " (parents),.... i have no family as they all have caused me so much grief and told lies about me and my family, i have no close friends i can talk too, basically i dont trust anyone, and i havent got the confidence in myself to talk face to face with anyone, including my husband , i cant do with anymore rejection and being laughed at, and being told there not bothered, have i got pnd or "normal " depression. thank u all for reading x