Dd is 11months in the last 6-8 weeks I've become extremely anxious I'm struggling to sleep and deal with the day to day cleanin,washing, food shop, general house stuff- it's getting done but is wearing me down I never finish before 10pm.
I don't have that much support dh works alot and isn't very helpful around the house ,family aren't helpful they are the come over and ask for a cup of tea type rather than actually offer to help(as a result ive not seen them in a while.)
Ive always felt slightly anxious ie checking to make sure she's still alive If she's not stirred in a while but nothing more than than really. It started getting bad when I had my flexible working refused work have pretty much said come back full time or not at all I work in retail and in a very Christmas focused business my hours will be incredibly unsociable my dh also works similar hours and I have no idea how to manage our childcare, every time I feel like I could do it my manager drops something else on me- 3 out of 4 weekends + extended working hours we use to finish at 6.30 we will now leave at 7.30 moving to 11pm at peak trading early starts are moved to 7am.
We are also trying to move which is absolutely hellish.