DD is 3 weeks old latching well and sleeping fairly well, but I'm up all night. I had a really tough pregnancy (had HG had to go into hospital etc), however the birth was really 'good' and I have family to support me but..
My husband is trying to be supportive but he just never does the right things. He has two sons from a previous relationship and his ex bf until they were 1- I dont enjoy bfing even with the correct latch. I feel pressured to bf and enjoy it because his ex did, sounds really dumb but its getting me down.
DD isn't settling with me at the moment, she has a feed and I hand her to DH- if I speak (usually to say whats wrong because I know her what her cries mean) he tells me to be quiet because "YOUR voice is making her cry" it's really frustrating when he says stuff like this because he thinks he's right about everything which, for a new mum, is really frustrating and gives me no confidence in myself. At night he sleeps whilst I tend to the baby so Im knackered by 6/7am- he just whisks DD away no offer of tea or actually caring about me (I know this sounds selfish and it's great I can get sleep but I actually would prefer some food or some love myself cause I feel so alone)
Im starting to really resent DD and DH- When he has DD Im the one that always offers things/runs round after him (getting drinks/cooking etc) he just doesnt get it. I've told him about this and he just thinks it's in my head.
I really hated being pregnant and now its really crap being a parent.
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Nexus6 · 31/07/2013 15:04
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