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Shy, autistic, and intelligent - what job would suit me? (title edited by MNHQ at request of OP)

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imthewor · 12/06/2023 14:09

I'm having a bit of a career break whilst I manage autistic burnout and re-evaluate the direction of my career.

I have an undergraduate and master's in biosciences (first and distinction), and worked in a laboratory for a bit which I loved (the team work aspect and feeling like I was doing something that was making a difference). However, pay was poor. I then moved into healthcare writing but found I oscillated between being bored and unmotivated or stressed and overwhelmed. I hated working from home and having to go on Zoom meetings with senior people from all over the world and present my work and deal with pushy project managers who wanted everything done ASAP with no budget or capacity to do so.

I am open to absolutely everything, but want to earn around £30,000 as that's what I was earning in my previous role, but willing to take a cut for the right thing. I think I'd prefer a role that was around people in person, as I struggle without the external structure. Working from home was bad for my mental health.

I've considered nursing, accountancy, law, pharma, teaching. Does anyone have any advice or if you have a similar personality to me, what do you do?

OP posts:
motherofkevinnotperry · 12/06/2023 17:13

hotjuneafternoon · 12/06/2023 14:15

counsellor/psychotherapist? Perfect job for quiet, reflective people who work better one to one than in groups.

Nope, horrendous idea. One of the highest occupations for burnout. Especially for people who absorb others emotions and are sensitive.

Ihatesponges · 12/06/2023 17:13

Hadn't realised there were so many other data suggestions! I'm like you OP and I work in data 😊

ArcticSkewer · 12/06/2023 17:13

Radiography.

You get the nhs bursary plus a student loan even if it's a second degree.

motherofkevinnotperry · 12/06/2023 17:16

What about something research based or policy/procedure in government/local authority.
Especially if you're detailed focused but find people can overwhelming after a while.

motherofkevinnotperry · 12/06/2023 17:18

My DH is autistic and is in financial management. I can't say he loves it but the balance between people and focus works well for him. There are many of his colleagues who are also ASD.

SpringBunnies · 12/06/2023 17:23

Niceseasidetown · 12/06/2023 15:01

Data analyst or developer

I work with these guys a lot and your personality type is the norm

Which means you get to work with people like you, who get you

You could earn significantly more than 30k quite quickly

It would require some effort and time to get the skills but I'm guessing your maths is strong which is a huge headstart

I'm a software developer and I suspect me and many of my colleagues are autistic. You do have to go on Zoom meetings and defend the technical aspect of your work with pushy project managers. And they do want everything done ASAP with little budget or capacity. However, your will be working with a lot of like minded people who want to do their job well. It really suits people who enjoy solving a hard problem and learning new things.

Is biology really that bad for a very technical person?

SpringBunnies · 12/06/2023 17:24

Given your biology and lab background, I'd suggest going into data for biology.

reallyworriedjobhunter · 12/06/2023 17:25

Try a course with Code First Girls? They are awesome.

Watsername · 12/06/2023 17:27

Your post has resonated with me. I suspect I am autistic (most of my family is, with or without diagnoses) with a masters degree from a very top university.

I used to work as a data analyst. I found it so interesting. I left to have children and ended up having a ten year break from paid work (though volunteered throughout). I became a TA at my children’s school and have mostly loved it, but now feel on the edge of burn out. The role has changed over the last year, and I really struggle with plans being changed and no one telling me as they seem to overlook the TAs.

I have toyed with going back to my old job in data analysis and have been doing some Codecademy courses in Python and data science. The trouble is, I have been out of the field for so very long. A big change like that is massively scary!

I am really struggling to make a decision about staying or going. I mostly love my TA role, but feel totally deflated by the lack or recognition and appalling pay.

Fivews · 12/06/2023 17:37

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imthewor · 13/06/2023 14:49

I did look at coding before and did a short course, but I found it hard to stay motivated at so I'm not sure if that's the right direction for me.

I like the idea of working in healthcare somewhere as I think for me the two biggest factors in why I've enjoyed previous jobs is working as a close knit team and feeling like I'm making a difference in the world (in quite a tangible and direct way). I worked for pharma before and felt like I was making money for the company rather than actually benefitting patients, and I resented that.

For some reason even though I'm autistic I do better working in person with people. I find working on Teams more stressful as I tend to overthink messages and emails, and find online meetings more stressful than in-person meetings as I hate being on camera.

At the moment I'm leaning towards nursing or one of the allied health professions. I'm quite good 1 on 1 with people and whilst I can be a bit quiet I am an empathetic listener and think I would shine in a position that involved a lot of empathy, understanding and kindness. There are some university courses that I can apply to but I'm not sure if it's too late for a September start I'm also not sure I'll get on them as I don't have any experience working with patients or being in a caring role (aside from working in a nursery for a little bit).

OP posts:
TheCyclingGorilla · 13/06/2023 15:06

We are always looking for engineers in my job. Apprenticeships come out every spring. You're ideal.

Zippedydoo123 · 13/06/2023 15:27

Library work?

BlackeyedSusan · 13/06/2023 15:33

maybe pharmacy?

definitely not teaching. talk to people who do the jobs you are thinking about and get a good understanding of what it is like before you start.

CasperGutman · 13/06/2023 15:41

Working as a patent examiner might perhaps be a good option for you. A fair few autistic people do the job successfully. It requires a combination of scientific and/or technical background knowledge, acuity with language (your healthcare writing could be an asset here) and attention to detail. Training in the legal side of things is provided.

The main downside is that there is only one UK Intellectual Property Office, in Newport Wales, which is a pain if you live in Edinburgh! Most people work mostly from home and some work completely from home (though this is usually something to negotiate after a few years experience). Some attendance in the office is usually required, about once a week on average, though this could possibly be something to discuss varying as a reasonable adjustment (as mentioned in this blog post by an autistic patent examiner).

More info on the job generally via these links:
Patent examiner job profile | Prospects.ac.uk
Patent examiner role - GOV.UK (www.gov.uk)

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Patent examiner job profile | Prospects.ac.uk

Discover what it takes to be a Patent examiner. Find out expected salary, working hours, qualifications and more.

https://www.prospects.ac.uk/job-profiles/patent-examiner

Plinkle · 13/06/2023 15:51

Following this with interest as I think I have the exact same personality traits as you OP! I’m curious about the data analyst suggestions. I currently work in a patient-facing role in the NHS and I really enjoy it but find it absolutely exhausting and often very stressful. Can anyone give some specifics about what working as a data analyst in the NHS would involve, in terms of actual day to day work and structure?

WiseUpJanetWeiss · 13/06/2023 15:58

Pharmacy - back room stuff, maybe medicines preparation, manufacturing, quality assurance - the things that require attention to detail? Very hands on and team based with the potential to specialise and work your way up.

teaandcake123 · 13/06/2023 16:00

Op, I have a similar personality to you and am a Physiotherapist. Like you, I enjoy making a difference to people’s lives and I also like interacting 1:1 with my patients. There are some settings that wouldn’t suit me, like busy outpatient departments, but I’ve found a setting that suits me very well and really enjoy my work. I wish you well in your search.

bingoitsadingo · 13/06/2023 16:03

How much have you explored other roles in the lab, if you enjoyed that job? I would be surprised if you couldn't work up in a pharmaceutical company to be on the salary you're aiming for?

Framboisery · 13/06/2023 16:07

Regulatory affairs ?
Patent attorney? I believe a PhD is usually needed though.
Bioinformatics if you are good with IT ?
QA or QC
Scientific librarian is unfortunately a job that has been massively scaled back with the rise of IT.
Clinical research?

NOT teaching !

Not working for a charity if you want to earn reasonable ££.

Star11111 · 13/06/2023 16:09

I would suggest a dental therapist. The course is less than a dentist (3 years) and usually most applicants are slightly older than the dental course. Working day is in a room with a nurse and patients but the practices are usually really friendly and nice. Your background in science will be beneficial, pay is good and can be either self employed or employed and you are working under a prescription from a dentist so less stressful than a dentist role.

BareBelliedSneetch · 13/06/2023 16:14

Definitely go and have a look at UKRI jobs. There’s one being advertised at the moment that would fit you well.

PinkyU · 13/06/2023 16:16

Shy, autistic AND intelligent

fixed that for you @imthewor

TroublesomeTrucks · 13/06/2023 16:59

Biomedical scientist in a hospital laboratory?

Watchinghurling · 13/06/2023 17:00

Definitely not teaching. The ability to understand and be flexible with other people's behaviour and understanding social cues are a key part of teaching. If you struggle with those, I wouldn't recommend it at all.

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