It's my birthday. I'm not the happiest of people this year as I've had a stressful time with finances, feel like I've taken a few steps back and in the past week have handed in my notice at work - without a new job lined up.
Partner has on occasions before for valentines and Christmas not made an effort and I've not reacted well to it and made a massive deal about why these things are important.
A few days ago he mentioned a couple items he was considering getting me - one is a pair of boots I've wanted for years but have never been able to justify the price. He said he would send the money for so I can order it for my birthday.
He never sent the money. It's my birthday today, he's done nothing for it. No card, chocolates - anything at all.
I'm in tears because this year I can't even treat myself to anything like is usually do.
I feel embarrassed to ask him if he's got something for me. I'm wondering if he will pull out something later. I doubt it though. I'm in tears about how stressful my life is right now and his lack of thought or effort makes me feel like shit and I want to end things for good after this.
AIBU? Part of me feels like a spoilt teenager- I'm 31.