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Is a camsite cheating - title edited by MNHQ at request of author.

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Preferbeadstoaplug · 26/02/2023 21:41

Cause DP having some ahem private time on a Camsite. Not very happy about it, they have apologised and said they will not do it again.
can’t decide if this constitutes as cheating or not? it’s live so I think to me it does feel like cheating.
Yabu - it’s not cheating just another form of pornography
yanbu - it’s definitely cheating

OP posts:
Changemaname1 · 26/02/2023 22:15

😂😂 was so confused thought you meant he was wanking in a tent

but yeh cam sites would be a no from me

LaPerduta · 26/02/2023 22:26

Wanking with intent is quite different to wanking within a tent.

TippledPink · 26/02/2023 22:31

Wanking to a live person whilst interacting with them, yes definitely cheating. If it was in person, you wouldn't be questioning it?

CrapBucket · 26/02/2023 22:34

Campsites are full of flaps and poles and guy ropes and pegging. Quite seedy when you think about it.

TheFretfulPorpentine · 26/02/2023 22:36

LaPerduta · 26/02/2023 22:26

Wanking with intent is quite different to wanking within a tent.

😂

TheFretfulPorpentine · 26/02/2023 22:37

Yes. He is getting sexual gratification from someone other than you.

IhearyouClemFandango · 26/02/2023 22:45

If you'd consider it cheating if it wasn't paid forz then it is still cheating if it is.

Cancankan · 26/02/2023 22:46

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Preferbeadstoaplug · 26/02/2023 22:49

Particularprick · 26/02/2023 22:08

They. Interesting you're trying to hide your DP's sex.

I wouldn't be ok with it but who cares what I think. Totally depends on your boundaries

Not trying to hide their sex. They are a biological female, but prefer to be referred to as a ‘they’.
thanks for the advice everyone.

OP posts:
MsDogLady · 26/02/2023 22:51

@Preferbeadstoaplug, I would absolutely consider camming to be cheating. Your Partner is having an interactive sexual experience with another woman.

Singularity82 · 26/02/2023 22:52

Your partner has paid a sex worker who has performed live specifically for them. 100% cheating in my book.

FrostyFifi · 26/02/2023 22:52

I'd consider it on a par with a lapdance. Definitely over the line for me.

fruitbrewhaha · 27/02/2023 07:30

Yuck, those women on campsites are totally being exploited, I can’t see much difference to getting a prostitute really. But I’m not into porn either

thymee · 27/02/2023 07:46

It's not 'cheating', in my eyes. There's no chance of a relationship/ anything actually happening between them.

But it would still make me uncomfortable in your position.

It's a step further than pornography as it's live, and you can have interaction with the person on the other end.

I wouldn't be happy if my partner did this.

knittingaddict · 27/02/2023 07:59

GPFavo · 26/02/2023 21:50

Then, personally, in that case, I'd class it in the "not cheating this time as not previously discussed but would be cheating if done again because now discussed" bracket. But I'd imagine you're about to get a few pages of LTB.

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Are we really expected to go through a checklist at the beginning of a relationship to establish what is cheating and what isn't?

Does it really need to be said that paying for a sexual service is off limits? I doubt many people, man or woman, would need to be told this specifically.

OnlyOpenMouthToChangeFeet · 27/02/2023 08:01

😂😂😂

Ceryneianhind · 27/02/2023 08:07

some ahem private time

You can use grown up words here.

OnlyOpenMouthToChangeFeet · 27/02/2023 08:09

LaPerduta · 26/02/2023 22:26

Wanking with intent is quite different to wanking within a tent.

🤣🤣🤣

DanseAvecLesLoup · 27/02/2023 08:10

"Now hammer that tent peg in.....no harder.....harder........."

MrNook · 27/02/2023 08:12

Ceryneianhind · 27/02/2023 08:07

some ahem private time

You can use grown up words here.

Especially with a username like OPs

23456v · 27/02/2023 08:24

BumpyaDaisyevna · 26/02/2023 22:00

I thought this was a question from a veteran wild camper who wanted reassurance that just for once it would be ok to book a campsite with hot shower and loos.

🏕️ 🌲 🔦 🔥 🎸 🍷 🏔️

Glad I'm not the only one who thought that! 😂

Perditaprunella · 27/02/2023 08:34

LaPerduta · 26/02/2023 22:26

Wanking with intent is quite different to wanking within a tent.

😂😂

BIWI · 27/02/2023 09:18

How strange that you should make that typo Hmm

discobrain · 27/02/2023 09:35

Christ, all this supposed confusion over an obvious typo.

Is your partner looking at camsites instead of being intimate with you, or alongside it?

Roggers · 27/02/2023 10:27

Something about the OP's username tells me all may not be as it seems

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