Long story short. I was sexually abused as a teenager by my uncle (who at the time was the closest thing to a father figure I had). My aunt divorced him but over the years really didn't do much to protect me, used to let him come to the house when I was there and at any special occasion he would always be there so I'd have to make excuses as to why I wasn't going. This is a long time ago now but the issue of feeling like I've done something wrong and had to be the one not to go to events for my cousin's etc has persisted, until late last year where I told my aunt how much it's been upsetting me and she basically blocked all contact with me. She was not speaking to the rest of my family the last few months because of this but I've now heard that a few of my other aunt's have met up with her. She has made no attempt to speak to me and try to understand how I feel. AIBU that I feel a bit betrayed that my family are just allowing her to act the way she has and to speak to her again? I feel like I can't get over everything that happened even though it's been a very long time and it's really impacting my life. I know she was also a victim but I feel I've never really been treated like a victim by her and almost like I was the problem.