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A 'what would you do?' situation (content warning - animal cruelty)

47 replies

JMSA · 09/07/2023 19:59

My sister, while she was a student, had a waitressing job at a fancy golf club. One day she was in the kitchen with the chef, when a mother rat and her babies crossed the kitchen towards the restaurant. They'd had the door open in the kitchen because of the heat, and I think they'd come in from outdoors. Quick as a flash, the chef grabbed a pot of boiling water and chucked it over them. Sad
Even though this happened years ago, my sister hasn't forgotten it and it came up when we were chatting the other night about past memories.
I KNOW that I would have frozen on the spot and brought the whole place into disrepute Blush
What would you have done in this situation?

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LammasEve · 09/07/2023 21:17

Ladyoftheknight · 09/07/2023 20:31

Rodents bringing disease into kitchens isn't okay, much like badgers on farms! Unfortunately they can't be left to wander around or gently placed in a flower bed

Amazing, someone manages to bring badgers into a discussion on rats, and blames them for bringing diseases. Never mind poor animal husbandry being the cause of diseases spreading.

As for the rats, I'd have tried to get them outside unharmed then twatted the chef with the biggest pan I could lift. Then would have phoned the RSPCA and reported the chef for animal cruelty.

There was a chef in Betws y Coed who killed a kitten by stamping on it, there are some cruel bastards about.

Boogily · 09/07/2023 21:23

Yikes!! Sorry if it's a stupid question but did the water actually kill them and did it work quite quickly? Hope so for the rats' sakes.

I definitely would have frozen , or just quickly and quietly scarpered and gone to get an application form from The Body Shop

SoWhatEh · 09/07/2023 21:32

mnahmnah · 09/07/2023 20:02

I would have thrown an empty pot over them, scooped and returned to the wild, far away

This. I like rats and mice so never panic if I see them. But they don't belong anywhere near humans unless they are pets.

I saw a mouse scuttle out of a woodpile by the fireplace in a very fancy hotel in London once. I discreetly told a member of staff and they just shrugged as if to say, well, yeah, hotel tea rooms attract mice!

Sunnydaysarentagiveneveninjuly · 09/07/2023 21:33

My ds is a chef. Never heard of him scalding live animals..

KarmaStar · 09/07/2023 21:35

Put the chefs head in a vat of boiling water see how he liked it.👿

ShirleyPhallus · 09/07/2023 21:46

Sunnydaysarentagiveneveninjuly · 09/07/2023 21:33

My ds is a chef. Never heard of him scalding live animals..

Lobsters?!

Eloweeese · 09/07/2023 21:48

We had a mouse indoors. I held out a box and said to it 'come on, do the right thing'. It walked into the box. DH and I were amazed

JMSA · 09/07/2023 21:55

Eloweeese · 09/07/2023 21:48

We had a mouse indoors. I held out a box and said to it 'come on, do the right thing'. It walked into the box. DH and I were amazed

I live near a river and had a bike in my place one night. It really was adorable and much more trusting than mice! It took some cheese from my hand and I was able to coax it into a container. I then released it by the river.

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JMSA · 09/07/2023 21:56

Fucking hell, a VOLE, not a bike!!

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tillytoodles1 · 09/07/2023 21:57

I have a rodent phobia so I would have hoped that the boiling water killed them and left my job, never to return.

Screamingabdabz · 09/07/2023 21:58

Rats are a no no in a commercial kitchen. If you see several rats walk in you would be totally remiss not to act immediately - it could cause such a loss of time and money left unchecked, not to mention the obvious risk to the health of customers. Rats breed and multiple very quickly. Some posters really need to get a grip. 🙄

FindingMeno · 09/07/2023 23:05

I would have gone ballistic at the chef for doing that, and be fired or resign.
Complete bastard.

Sunnydaysarentagiveneveninjuly · 10/07/2023 16:04

Can confirm all foods prepped by my ds are already dead....

Verv · 10/07/2023 16:08

If I am honest, my immediate reaction wouldve been to assault the chef.

Animal cruelty is the one thing I wouldn't be able to keep my hands still over.

(and boiling water is cruel, regardless of whether or not the creature on the receiving end is considered vermin)

SingingNettles · 10/07/2023 16:09

I hope the chef subsequently died in pain.

PenC544 · 10/07/2023 18:29

That’s absolutely barbaric. You wouldn’t do that to a guinea pig so why would you do it to a rat. I’d have grabbed a broom and guided it outside.

HorseyMel · 10/07/2023 18:47

KarmaStar · 09/07/2023 21:35

Put the chefs head in a vat of boiling water see how he liked it.👿

Animal lovers say this sort of thing a lot (on the internet) - suggesting that we treat humans the same as animals.

Do you think it's a great retort? Do you think that it makes sense?

When someone puts a dog on a lead, do you think, "We should put the owner on a lead and see if he likes it"

If someone works in an abattoir, do you think they should be bolt gunned and processed, like the cows and sheep who enter the abattoir?

I just don't see the apparent genius in this popular retort.

Throckmorton · 10/07/2023 18:53

I would have called the police and RSPCA and reported what he did. Hopefully they would have prosecuted him.

Verv · 11/07/2023 10:38

HorseyMel · 10/07/2023 18:47

Animal lovers say this sort of thing a lot (on the internet) - suggesting that we treat humans the same as animals.

Do you think it's a great retort? Do you think that it makes sense?

When someone puts a dog on a lead, do you think, "We should put the owner on a lead and see if he likes it"

If someone works in an abattoir, do you think they should be bolt gunned and processed, like the cows and sheep who enter the abattoir?

I just don't see the apparent genius in this popular retort.

When you put a dog on a harness, it is for its safety, and usually indicates that an activity is about to take place that the dog will enjoy.
As a small human with limited capacity for risk assessment - I was put on reins, as many toddlers my age in the early 80s were so that I was still free to explore the world with both hands, but someone had a grip on me incase I decided to shoot of into traffic.

So yes, I think it makes sense.

Having seen some of the exposes of the abuse that goes on within abattoirs and the videos of men enjoying the torture and fear that they inflict on an animal prior to its death - I have no issue with those men receiving a bolt.

OrwellianTimes · 11/07/2023 10:44

I would have reported to environmental health. Rats in kitchens can close the place down.

HorseyMel · 11/07/2023 11:56

Verv · 11/07/2023 10:38

When you put a dog on a harness, it is for its safety, and usually indicates that an activity is about to take place that the dog will enjoy.
As a small human with limited capacity for risk assessment - I was put on reins, as many toddlers my age in the early 80s were so that I was still free to explore the world with both hands, but someone had a grip on me incase I decided to shoot of into traffic.

So yes, I think it makes sense.

Having seen some of the exposes of the abuse that goes on within abattoirs and the videos of men enjoying the torture and fear that they inflict on an animal prior to its death - I have no issue with those men receiving a bolt.

I think I get it.

Treating animals differently from humans in some ways is ok. That's obvious, I agree with that.

But, in other cases (which do not seem to be clear cut and will surely vary from person to person) if a human treats an animal in a certain way, people on the internet should type "Let's do that to him and see if he likes it".

It puts anyone dealing with animals on tricky ground though, doesn't it? I mean, if they are treating an animal differently (like lead use, to pick a simple example) one person might walk past and think "that's fine - the owner doesn't need to wear the lead to see if he'd like it" - which obviously he wouldn't.

But then another "dog lover" walks past and says "that's unacceptable in this situation. You must now wear a lead to see if you'd like it". Which, again, obviously he wouldn't - we already know the answer to this question in both cases.

I need to think about this famous internet "dog lover" retort a bit more, as I still don't see the sense or genius in it. It doesn't sound like either the put down of all put downs or a great solution for helping humans with their interactions with animals.

Verv · 11/07/2023 13:11

@HorseyMel I see what you're saying.
I think for me the line is deliberate cruelty or humans who derive pleasure from harm or pain.
I genuinely have not a shred of mercy for them.

I think intent is the difference, you can accidentally trip over your dog if it gets under your feet which scares the dog (and you) and you holler OH BLOODY HELL BRIAN! and then check if he's okay, while its not a pleasant experience and one that you can feel guilty about, you never intended or set out to kick your dog, so you dont deserve someone to come and kick you.

But if you DID deliberately intend to kick your dog through malice.. completely different.

There are shades to everything, but I concede that some internet comments can be significantly lacking in nuance or logic.

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