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AIBU?

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to think I don't have very good friends

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KiKa20 · 01/07/2010 14:23

I have three friends in particular that i'm starting to think are taking the piss out of me.
Friend 1 is also my son's nursery carer, since she got a new boyfriend she has not bothered to talk to me unless it is something to do with nursery or her ex. For her birthday I went out for her birthday meal, took her out for our own lunch and bought her some clothes while shopping. In return on my birthday I got a card made for me from my son while he was at nursery. She also does not take very good care of my son while he is in nursery and he alway's comes back filthy and usually with an injury. I know this is because she feels she can get away with it with me, hence I am now moving my son nursery.
Friend 2 is my sons godmother. Since she fell pregnant with her own son, me and my son have gone out the window completely. Now i understand this to a certain extent. but still. we have always been close, yet shes getting married soon and we haven't been invited to the actual wedding even though I thought we were close friends. I can kind of see why, its a money issue I assume. Now today she begged me to go to the weighing clinic with her as she doesn't like going on her own. I was just about to leave to meet her when I got a text saying she wasn't going. We were ready and about to leave the house. I suggested I go round to hers instead and I got am really busy, lunch tomorrow? AIBU here or should she not have cancelled such last minute after me only going for her anyway.
Friend 3 is a nightmare, causes lots of trouble between my step daughters mother and I as she runs between the two of us. Yet again its another birthday one, I bought both her and her partner birthday presents and went out for both their birthdays. In return I got sweet FA and neither were bothered about coming out for my birthday.
AIBU or shall I just dump these friends and stick with the ones I know won't take the piss?

OP posts:
BarkisIsWilling · 01/07/2010 14:25

I think you know the answer to your question OP. Still, it does hurt when people don't seem to take one seriously.

You'll get through this.

peeringintothevoid · 01/07/2010 17:59

YANBU

Life is too short for people who treat you like that; save your energy for people who care about you and treat you well.

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