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Tell me off! I called someone the c word, and thoroughly enjoyed it

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Jux · 30/06/2010 19:38

but I really shouldn't have done it. He was our departing tenant. He's been awful to deal with (though he has paid his rent); he's lazy, rude, small minded and reneged on the gentleman's agreement we had with him when we took him on. As it was a gentleman's agreement, we couldn't do anything about it, and we've been stuck with him for 4 years. Today was his last day.

The contract stipulated that he had to make good and he hasn't (well he has a bit, but so badly that it'll all have to be redone, after his crappy job has been removed, which adds to the work). He started getting arsey and swearing when dh said the work wasn't good enough.

Then he pretended he couldn't remember how much the deposit was. Then he complained when we gave him a cheque (he'd given us a cheque originally) and said "How do I know it won't bounce?" at which point I lost it and called him by the c-word. Which is of course, the only bit he's going to tell anyone else - and he'll tell everyone.

And he has still got two keys; had others cut without asking so we have no way of knowing how many might be bouncing around, so we'll have to get the locks changed too.

But I shouldn't have called him what I did. But boy, did I enjoy it.

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Mumcentreplus · 30/06/2010 19:41

Oooh you bad lady not!

Jux · 30/06/2010 20:01

I'm sorely tempted to move all the money out of that account into our other one - only for a week, and then move it back again. Just so he has to represent it.

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SugarMousePink · 30/06/2010 20:05

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Mumcentreplus · 30/06/2010 20:09

I really would be tempted too Jux...but you want to be rid of this man ..I tend to think people get what they deserve eventually

Mumcentreplus · 30/06/2010 20:11

I agree...change the locks!!!

Vallhala · 30/06/2010 20:12

Lol, I like the idea of temporarily moving the money into another account.

Some people just deserve that ultimate swearword, especially when you've exhausted all others.

Whenever I hear the word, I always, without fail, think of my ex-husband.

claig · 30/06/2010 20:12

don't mess about with the account. You are right to be angry but it is never good to make enemies, just write him off as a bad egg

Jux · 30/06/2010 20:49

Yeah, but they're special security locks so v expensive to replace. DH is talking about writing to this guy's wife, ffs! Why? Sometimes dh is an arse

but not the other thing.

I seem to have my sweary head on this evening.

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Alouiseg · 30/06/2010 20:53

My favourite swear word, bar none. That deserved it.

IFancyKevinELevin · 30/06/2010 20:54

Surely all these costs should be removed from his deposit?

Jux · 30/06/2010 21:05

Yes, they will be. Luckily he pretended he couldn't remember how much the deposit was and then pretended he thought it was 125 quid less. Because of the work that needed redoing, dh just wrote him a cheque for the amount he asked for; cue the blustering about not knowing if it would bounce.

So we do have 125 quid in hand which we will use to get everything done and change the locks. If there's any change we'll give it to him. It was quite lucky really, as we know damn well that if we'd given him the full deposit and then asked for reimbursement of costs we'd never have seen it. I'm surprised dh was willing to give him any of it before getting costs assessed tbh. I wouldn't have.

He'll get a proper accounting, we don't want to cheat him even if he is a c*.

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IFancyKevinELevin · 30/06/2010 21:08

Ah well sweetie, he's someone else's c*nt now.

By the way doesn't he need a landlord's reference from you...

Fluffyone · 30/06/2010 22:19

If £125 will cover the work that needs doing you've got off lightly. No gentlemen's agreements next time though I guess.

Jux · 01/07/2010 09:46

Yup, you live and learn. I'd never had so much trouble with people, until I got married. It's either all dh's fault or I've stopped being a Sex Goddess and my charm no longer works. I opt for the former.

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