rather than a big night out of the piss.
Bit of Background. Is my ex I am talking about. He "won" some money this week and went out with it on a big night out.
Arrived this morning to see dc and then asked me to lend him some cash so he could do something special with them. I said "NO!" as I knew he had had this money, turned out he spent it within 24 hours of winning it. He then told me that he wouldn't allow me to turn this into a big drama and make this situation All About ME! etc etc etc.
AIBU to think that if he wanted to give his kids a treat he probably should have kept hold of some of this money to do so instead of asking me? I am a single parent for crying out loud and yes he does pay child support but why the hell should I be lending him money, every month he comes to me when he runs short before pay day.
I am absolutely raging, I can't even be coherant when he tries to explain to me that I am the one who is being unreasonable. Help me come up with some calm, measured response to let him know what a prick he is. He always turns it around and trys to make out I am being selfish or dramatic.