To have persuaded DP to not send his mums hubby a fathers day card?

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DP is 42. He has a dad who is alive who he loves. His mum married a man who irritates us intensely (although he is not horrible) perhaps 8 years ago. This man has fallen out with his two sons, so (understandably) MIL feels for him on fathers day.

For the last 2 years she has called to ask us to send him a fathers day card- both times DP would have done it to please his mum although he really didnt want to.

I persuaded him not to (in fact I was that she would even ask) - but was I BU? Do others send their step-parents mother/fathers day cards?

Thanks!

I would say that YABU but also your MIL is BU, why can't your dh make the decision whether or not to send a card to someone for himself??