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so angry with DH!!!!!

11 replies

vicbar · 29/06/2010 19:14

Im 36 wks pg and have had a day out planned with 2 girlfriends for lunch and a mooch around the shops as a belated bday pressie (it was my bday a month ago)
One friend had to arrange childcare to be able to manage it.
I left home at 10:50 then got a phone call at 2:15pm from DH to say he's stuck at the leisure centre as it's chucking it down he has DD with him and no coat or umbrella (we only have one car which I had) and he doesnt think he'll get to preschool in time.
Id managed to go to Boots to buy his toiletries, buy some new goggles for DD1 and Just finished lunch when he called.
I then have to leave my friends to race back to get DS from preschool and DD1 from school.
We live 10 min walk from school and another mum said she saw them arrive home at 14:40. When I got back DD2 and DH were having a nice nap.
AIBU to think that as he plays cricket every Saturday (13.30-7ish) and every Tues evening (5:30-9pm) as well as playing the odd round of golf I have RIGHT to be really pissed off and think he could have planned what he was doing to make sure he got there.
I know Im not going to get a chance to do this before DC4 arrives as friends work and have lives.
Bastard.

Sorry for the long post need to vent.

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Disenchanted3 · 29/06/2010 19:16

Bastard. Yes.

Next time hes at cricket ring him and shout fire, as he gets in light a match ... well it IS fire.

oiteach · 29/06/2010 19:17

YANBU. Kill him.

oiteach · 29/06/2010 19:18

I realise my solution means your children will be fatherless but you will feel better.I just thought I should tell you that.

vicbar · 29/06/2010 19:19

He's a firefighter so that would be wuite funny.
I was considering pretending to be in labour but thats a bit mean.

Plus the car got scratched whilst I had it and he was trying to make a point of were you going to tell me.

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vicbar · 29/06/2010 19:19

OITEACH - But his life ins is very generous. hmmmm

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Angelcat666 · 29/06/2010 19:28

@ Oiteach

A perfectly reasonable response I thought

OP YANBU

RunawayWife · 29/06/2010 19:30

I think you need to have a reason to screw up his cricket or golf next time he goes TBH

Beachbreak · 29/06/2010 19:33

He has to know this is NOT reasonable! If he does this while you are pregnant, he may repeat after you have the baby and 'you time' such a shopping with the girls is such a precious commodity once you have a baby he simply can't stuff it up like that! (Potential overreaction here as my DP did something similar...twice!)

DuelingFanjo · 29/06/2010 19:44

I would have told him to sort it out and left him to it.

vicbar · 29/06/2010 19:54

The annoying thing is he is more than capable, when Im working the kids are sorted fed the house is cleaned. When Im home its like he thinks thats my job? But I dont really help myself and do silly things like if im taking the DC out Ill make his lunch and put it in the fridge . I need to stop doing that.
Dfanjo I wish I had but the picture he painted was worse than the reality and the thought of my DS being the last one at preschool staring out of the window... I blame the pg hormones. And the £10 fine the preschool charge if your late.

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verytellytubby · 29/06/2010 21:24

I wouldn't have answered my phone and let him sort it out!

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