Some background:
We only have 2 weeks holiday this year, because I have so much work that we could not leave earlier. I had ordered some plants online, £250 worth of roses and shrubs. The weather is foul, it is 6 degrees and rain. The plants were 3 weeks late, and I need to plant them before we go.
I have spent most of the day today and yesterday out gardening in the freezing cold and the rain. I took what I thought were my merino base layer gloves, worn inside rubber gloves. This kept my hands warm and dry.
He discovered I was wearing the merinos, when I took of my rubber gloves to drink some tea. He went ballistic on me. They were his merinos, and they should not be used for such work, and my long-ish nails have frayed them at the tips. I apologized, and said if the merinos were his, I would of course replace them. It did not stop him, he was really nasty and shouting and screaming it was beside the point, they were £20 and how DARE I use his gloves.
I told him I was hurt by his attitude, my hands would be too wet and cold if I did not use them, and I had offered to replace them.
He told me to fuck off.
So I said, in this case, I will wait for sunshine to do the gardening, though it will possibly delay our departure with about a week.
Maybe this should not be in AIbu. It should possibly be in relationships.