By not wanting to tell dad to be of my pregnancy??

[xstaceyxcatx]

long story short was seeing this man 10 months we parted ways in march due to the relationship not really going anywhere and both of us not wanting it to become anything more. Have kept in contact regularly which lead to a few random meetings when both of us had free nites.

Yesterday i found out im pregnant and am terrified to tell him due to him being slightly younger than me and also due to me already having a 6yr old.

Would it be unreasonable to leave it until i pass 12 weeks? As im scared the arguements wil cause me too much stress that i cant afford due to suffering badly from endomitreosis and this baby literally being the miracle i never thought would happen.

All comments appreciated

Thanks xstaceyxcatx but Irish passport office are very strict. No amount of talking or writing seems to have helped.

Off to court I go....

that a joke, hope all goes well for you, and that the judge makes him feel like the idiot that he clearly is x

Congratulations lovely news![]
I say take really good care of yourself and your child and bump obviously and if you really can't face telling him yet then wait until 12 weeks and then break the news. He will need to know eventually - whatever the reaction you will deal with it. If it were me I might find the weight of such a secret difficult to bear and telling might be a relief but I can see where you're coming from. Take the pressure of yourself for now and be at peace.

Thank you so much its just there is sooo much going on right now and this wee suprise has just added to it. But its a nice thing to look forward to. Think i shall maybe tell him tommoro and just get it over with at the end of the day if he shouts i can hang the phone up