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AIBU?

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to be p****d off with dh

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saintmom · 17/06/2010 14:12

about 3 months ago dh left a very stable secure job for another job within the same industry, working out on the roads.

He hasnt been paid properly since he started and theres rumors that the company might be going bust, so ive said to dh as he gets on very well with the owner put your self out there with this job show them how good you are he agreed and said that he really like working for this company.

Any way just phoned dh and they have finished the job he was on and is now skieving(sp?) at one of the lads houses as if they go back to the yard now they will prob be sent out on another job, im really pissed at him for this as

  1. he is 34 and should know better,
  2. the other lads hes with are in their young 20s with no family commitments still living at home i think he feels that he wants them to look at him and thinks hes cool 3)he has allways been easily led by the crowd why cant he stand up on his own two feet and
  3. if they get caught what kind of impression is the boss going to have of him,what if the rumors are true and the company have to make cut backs, he will be top of the list as he is untrust worthy, hes risking it at the sake of our family im a SAHM as both our DC are autistic.

He was in trouble the otherday for leaving site with the others to go the shop once again following the crowd.

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saintmom · 17/06/2010 14:30

AIBU or not??

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RooBear · 17/06/2010 14:34

YANBU hes being very immature esp. as the job market is so scary right now, I'd be having words

minipie · 17/06/2010 14:36

no YANBU. But on the other hand if you yell at him he may just skive and not tell you in future. Better to have a serious conversation about it with him when he gets home - as your OP says, he's risking a lot for the sake of being "in with the cool kids".

saintmom · 17/06/2010 14:39

thankyou, even though he is 4 years older than me i feel at times that i have to be the adult

this has really pissed me off

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