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AIBU?

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To think these parents are being overprotective and mistrusting

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Dancergirl · 17/06/2010 13:16

Parking is a major issue at my dds' school and is a real bugbear of mine. One of the problems is that it is a very narrow road and you get people parking on corners, on the kerb etc causing a lot of congestion.

One of the ideas we have had (I'm a parent governor) is a walking bus from the top of the road. I think this is a great idea and parents could be on a rota to walk with the children. It would mean crossing the road outside the school but is a short walk, about 3/4 minutes.

When I have discussed this with parents I am amazed at the number of parents who insist on going with their child to the classroom door and wouldn't want anyone else doing it. Hence they wouldn't be interested in a walking bus unless they walk every day with the children.

Am I missing something here? I think it would be great to drop them and be able to drive off knowing they were being walked to school. We're all parents, it's a small friendly school, I don't see the problem. One mum said she would only do it if she knew the other parent very well. And another said she felt it was her 'job' to walk them down

Your thoughts?

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pagwatch · 20/06/2010 15:28

Cathider

does every robust disagreement always now have to result in a post about bullying.

I think everyone on both sides of this debate have expressed themselves in forthright tones and, it is AIBU which is the format for such discussion.

It does get quite dreary as bullying is quite a strong word to use. The 'cronies' angel is especially dreary.

You may be right. Maybe some on here were playground bullies.
I suspect though there are a fair few who were endlessly playing the victim and whinging that nothing was ever fair.

weblette · 20/06/2010 16:21

YANBU but alas it is the parents' right to be as ridiculously over-protective as they see necessary....

Our school has 'crocodiles' supported by the county council.

There are strict adult/child ratios, the parents are CRBed and have undergone specific road safety training, children are only allowed on it once they have done road safety training - the 'Footsteps' scheme. Works really well.

Doing this has definately reduced the traffic around the school.

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