AIBU in not taking care of my DHs needs?

[Glitzy]

Am a regular/lurker but have name changed. Can you settle this agrument for us. Basically, when it's "that time of the month", do you all take care of your DHs "needs" in other ways, or do you just wait till the all clear? (the usual way is a no go)

Can I just Pmsl @ Friday night is anal night our period doesn't affect our sex life, I'm not usually in the mood for the first 2 days But sometimes i get 2 day's when i'm not on my period when we don't have sex, If i'm in the mood i'm not going to object to giving a quick blow job after all he will agree to anything on the promise of a blow job lol

but as for feeling unloved over a couple of days is he very insecure? does he have a very small willy?

Yeah, balloon, I got that he was probably joking. But I stand by what I said.

He was joking, you lynch mobbers!

We sometimes have sex at the end of my period, after the first couple of hellish days. At the start I feel terrible and don't want him talking to me, let alone getting naked.

I would not service him for any reason other than I wanted to, no matter the time of the month, and he would not want me to.

i can't believe you lot want it anytime of the month . it just confirms that i am in a minority

Sex anal or other is over rated and i have better things to do with my time like sleep. Sex doesn't = Love (a word that is over used IMHO would much rather dh sid he was proud of me etc).

Sex is over rated I would disagree :p

My poor DH is only just brave enough to converse with me at that time of the month, he would never dare suggest his needs, or anyone elses for that matter, were taken care of! I am usually a nice person but I become possessed by the bitch from hell for those few days!

I have sex anyway, it's just as enjoyable. Just messy.

Of course sex doesn't equal love! But just because you enjoy it doesn't mean that you thnk it does. Sex is sex. It's enjoyable and certainly not overrated. If you think it is, you're doing it wrong.

Like BertyBots my XP used to be like that, but never ever will i get emotionally blackmailed like that. Apparently I was responsible for his happiness, and I could jolly well 'lie back and think of England' as far as he was concerned.

pfft don't think i am doing it wrong i just did too much too early .

It is still over rated and i dont get why so much emphasis is put on it, it doesn't really 'add' much. Like i said i know i am in minority (apart with rl friends!)./

Dont get me wrong, i stick to my guns, just wanted him to see that other women dont all give them what they want and, no, he doesnt have a small willy

i'm 30 weks pregnant and my dp has been taking care of himself for a while now...

My God, I thought that my DH can be a right prick at times but now I feel lucky!!

I would love to be able to give your dh a period - just one ......