I am a doctors receptionist and firstly I would just like to say thank you to all who have posted supporting us!
At our surgery, we don't ask for a routine doctors appointment but do have to ask if someone requests an emergency appointment, a nurses appointment, a home visit or a call back from a GP.
The reason we ask for an emergency appointment is firstly to establish if it actually is an emergency, and also because we have a triage system that brings up a list of questions relating to the problem that we have to ask the patient. This enables them to be prioritised according to their problem. No one has to divulge any information to us if they really don't want to (although I haven't come across many who don't!), but they then have to be made aware that we cannot prioritise their problem so they will be at the bottom of the list for a clinician to call back. Funny how many will change their minds and go into full detail when you tell them that
We have to ask for nurses appointments as we have 3 nurses and depending on the problem, depends which nurse you see (only 2 deal with asthma so have to make sure we book you in with the correct one), and to enable us to allocate the correct amount of time you will need.
As for call backs and home visits, the GP's insist we ask for a reason, and will ask us to call back for more info if they feel we haven't got enough, so as not to waste their time.
Give us a break! We really don't care what you want to see a doctor about and believe me, we have far better things to talk about than what's wrong with you!!
(Apologies for any mistakes, tapped out quickly on iPad and can't recheck what I've typed)