I went on maternity leave last Sept and while DS was only several weeks old he got very ill and ended up in hospital in intensive care. (He's ok now luckily but it has been a long, hard road.) Partially because he was so ill (almost died twice) and I feel lucky to still have him and partially because I don't want to leave him, I met with work in April to discuss my return and said I wanted to do my job part-time. I handle the HR issues for my department of a larger organisation and do confidential/personnel secretarial work for three bosses. They said it has increased in busyness since I was doing it and it needed to be done full-time. I then asked if I could do it as a job share, and they said, "we don't see how it can be done as a job share". Then I asked if I could return full-time and use accrued holidays to work a part-time week, then when the holiday was gone to reassess (to see if I would reconsider pt over ft, to see if I can do the job pt or not etc.) and that was rejected also. All of the options I have requested have been granted for other people (doing other jobs), so they haven't been out of the blue or unheard of. The boss I was speaking to has two other positions I have a choice of doing- one as a PA and the other as receptionist. I don't want to do PA work (different from my secretarial responsibilities, and besides the job will be too busy for pt), and I feel reception work is a demotion from my current position.
Who is being unreasonable here- me or work?