when visiting my parents house?
My DM goes to bed at about 1am and gets up at about 9am. She sleeps very badly due to a chronic health condition, and is very often up many times during the night. My DF goes to bed at about 10pm and gets up at about 6.30am (think this is why their marriage has lasted for 30+ years ).
They are both really REALLY noisy. When they get up they bang doors, put the radio/tv on, use the microwave (bang, whirr, ping, bang!). It is a nightmare, and I'm not used to it as I haven't lived with them for 15 years.
I have hinted about them being a bit quieter going to bed/getting up, to no avail. But I got really annoyed last time I stayed with them. I mentioned (nicely)to my mum that she was waking me up at 1am by noisily loading the dishwasher (kitchen is right below my room). She replied, 'tough luck, you shouldn't be so sensitive to noise'.
This was the last straw for me. She actually has no thought for other people's sleep at all. AIBU to think that this is unfair and a little bit rude? IMO if you stay at someone's house, you should be thoughtful to their need for sleep. My DH actually doesn't want to stay their anymore as he can't cope with the lack of sleep.