to think sex once a week even with 2 babies is a poor show

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Just wondering if you think we should be 'doing it more'!.

We have 2 babies ages 11 months and 2.5yrs which is obviously tiring. But I think we need to make time to 'do it' more. Dh says he is knacked just getting to work!

We are in our early forties and been together just over 3 years.

What do yout think - should I be online now or in bed!!

You're getting a lot more than I. Well done. People with kids forget the advantages of regular sex. Let's face it, it's free, you don't need to leave the house, don't need a babysitter, and it ought yo bring you closer to DP and reduces stress... Green with envy for you.

I think you're a sex addict and need help

never sure about people who view sex in a how many times a week tally

yabu to count it up

I could count 2010's tally on one hand.

My dh is obviously a sex maniac as we do something everyday or should that be

We have 3 under 5 if anyone wanted to know

We have one 3 year old and have been together 10 years. We hsve sex most days and sometimes more. Personally, for us, I'd be worried if we went a week without, illness excepted. But you need to do what is right for you. We spend a fortune on condoms ;)

we haven't got any children (and we've only been together a year)

last month we didn't manage to do it at all, because we kept forgetting to go to bed early, then i had my period again and realised that it had been before my previous period that we'd done it.

(we have to go to bed early in order to do it because DF's a postie and has to be up very very early in the morning)

We have a tally.

It's a big whiteboard on our wall and every time we have sex we put one mark on the board with our special Sex Tally Marker Pen.

When we've made it to ten goes we give ourselves a reward, such as two Crunchies instead of one.

I'm looking forward to my extra Crunchie in approximately six months.