She has gone on holiday 3 times now for between 2-3 weeks alone leaving her dd with my mum. No probs, she has gone to some fantastic places with her pal, she isnt a boozy bird, loves to travel, and misses her dd (7)like mad, but given the opportunity, she has grabbed it.
Ive never commented, ive taken her dd out to give my mum a break, not a dicky bird, ive no opinion but the rest of my family have all commented that she should not be leaving her child blah blah blah,,,
So me, dh and ds are of to Florida in a few weeks. We have been saving for 4 years for this holiday. Ds is 7.
So dsis was asking when we go to see Mikey mouse, i told her and her dd says "oooh can i come, i want to come" to which d sis says "no, you are far too young to appreciate something like that" (kids are both 7)
So i says, "what rubbish, its designed for kids, she would absolutely LOVE it, she is a perfect age"
So i am cross at dsis as she is being judgemental, clearly dissaproves of us taking ds there and i am disapointed as i was the only one who was not judgemental about her holiday habits.
I thought maybe she was saying that because she was trying to put dn off, but she didnt, she was clearly sending me a message about her thoughts.
Any hoo, we never fall out, so left it there, but i am somewhat irritated that she of all people having been judged by people then does the same thing to me.
So,if it were you, would you be irritated? What would you do?