........ so now he is faced with having to pay back a lot of money which we don't have.
His circumstances changed in 2009/10 - he says he called them to explain the situation and they said fine, they'd send paperwork, but this never arrived and what with Babyduck and me going back to work and his life being fairly manic it slipped his mind (he says).
Top and bottom of it was that paperwork never arrived, because had slipped his mind he never chased. He has followed it up now and they have no records of his initial call (hmmm). They have cut his tax credits from the date his circs changed to nil, without then taking into account he would have been entitled to slightly more credits following the change of circs than he was being paid before the change!!!!
Apparently they can only backdate changes by 93 days so this leaves a big hole where they have reduced his credits to nil and are demanding repayment. It seems we can write to explain the situation, and that taking into account the changes he should actually have had more credits than he received, but HMRC are not obliged to do anything.
I can live without having the additional credits, we have managed for this long, but we can't manage a repayment in the sum they are asking. Even payment over a 12 month period is more per month than we have spare.
This could all have been avoided if DP had just bloody well kept an eye on the situation, but no....
We are really strapped for money anyway and this is the last thing we need.
I am not a happy camper