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To think that women with tattoos (note correct spelling)

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Kaloki · 31/05/2010 22:53

..are wonderful.

As are women without tattoos. (Unless they are judgemental loons of course )

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UnquietDad · 01/06/2010 15:21

The point about clothes and hairstyle is the most sensible one I have seen. I, and many men and women of my acquaintance, made some dubious "fashion" choices in the past, but thankfully they are immortalised only in photographs. Imagine having decided to get something permanently emblazoned on our skin because at the age of 25 you think it looks "cool"... what do you do when, at the age of 40, you decide it is embarrassing and naff?

MNHubbie · 01/06/2010 15:23

You get a new tattoo incorporating or covering up the old one. No problem. I had one of mine done at 18 replaced when I was 32 by a better version of the same thing.

UnquietDad · 01/06/2010 15:29

Yes, but what if you decide you don't like tattoos any more, and think of them rather in the same way as the pink hair /green hair/ baggy jeans/ excessive goth eyeliner/ Free Nelson Mandela T-shirt/ CND badge/ embarrassing jumper (delete as applicable) which you first sported at around the same time?...

iamfabregasted · 01/06/2010 15:31

Dad, I've wanted a tattoo for a long long time, I thought a lot about it before I got it donw, it means a lot to me, and its somewhere that no one can see unless I choose to see them.

My tattoo is not a fashion statement iyswim

iamfabregasted · 01/06/2010 15:33

done doh, can't type

MrsDanversBites · 01/06/2010 15:34

A colleague has this problem, she now has a fading dolphin, star and rose on thigh, neck and cleavage respectively...

She is now 44 and wants them off but loved them at 18/19

iamfabregasted · 01/06/2010 15:35

Well I'm 40 and I only got my tattoo done a couple of months ago.

Mind you, it took me 20 years to work up to it lol

MrsDanversBites · 01/06/2010 15:36
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Gigantaur · 01/06/2010 15:38

My tattoo's are not for anyone else but me. They are not fashion items that will fall in or out of vogue.

I look at my tattoo's and can tell you exactly where i was in my life with each of them. they are like a photo album or a passport to my history.

Even if in years to come i wish i had chosen a different design, i will not regret having them as they are a representaion of my life at the time of having them.

iamfabregasted · 01/06/2010 15:40

Gigantaur - you put that so much better than I did.

Kaloki · 01/06/2010 16:48

Exactly what giganteur said. Just because some use them as fashion items doens't mean all do.

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JaneS · 01/06/2010 17:51

Britfish, Kaloki, bit late on this but I should clarify I don't have wrinkly elephant, I just like the idea of him. Or her.

Liking Belle's cherry buttock.

MNHubbie · 01/06/2010 19:45

YEAH! What Gigantaur said!

I only rushed into one of mine that the only problem I had with it was I wanted it bigger and neater so I got a cover up.

I take at least 2 years to decide upon each tattoo and some I take much longer than that. I decided at 19 to get a Cornish cross done on my arm but only got it done last year (partly because I couldn't afford it before (it is big and intricate).

"pink hair /green hair/ baggy jeans/ excessive goth eyeliner/ Free Nelson Mandela T-shirt/ CND badge/ embarrassing jumper (delete as applicable) which you first sported at around the same time?..."

Um... Not done, not done, big deal (still wear), not done, if I was old enough to have had one I'd still be proud, still have one, every jumper I have is embarrassing but none of my tattoos are to me.

I suppose it depends what sort of person you are. I think Gigantaur summarised my thinking on this perfectly.

I did not rush into anything, some people do, most don't. I know the next 5 tattoos I'm having done one has been planned for a decade but will be costly (had smaller ones done since thinking of this one), one is in memory of my late mum and I had planned for years before her death (rather morbidly) but it is still too raw to get done, one is still a relatively new idea for me and I want to wait a year or so to see how it really sits with me and the last I'm still thinking about where to have it done (on my body, the artist is a no-brainer) and whether or not the colours will age well (using one of my older ones as a test for that). Before some of them are done I will need touch-ups done on a couple of my older tattoos.

Yes they can look faded and nasty but at the same time you can maintain them, restore them, edit them and have them returned to past glory.

I've had one redone as I mentioned before. My next oldest is over 12 year old now and I will have it retouched in about 5 to 10 years and that'll keep for another 20 years at least. I don't plan to have anything done to it except to recolour and re-edge it and to correct one tiny (about 2mm across) bit that was missed (red ink on red skin whilst bleeding... there was always going to be at least a little bit missed and the artist did offer to redo that bit at the time unfortunately I had to move before he could) so it will be exactly the same tattoo because I love it, wanted it for years before I got it and still love it.

UnquietDad · 01/06/2010 20:52

In case that wasn't clear, that was not intended to be an exhaustive list of youthful fashion accessories to be dealt with one by one. It was merely a list of possible examples.

scottishmummy · 01/06/2010 20:56

i like tattoos.individuals can express themselves as they wish without having to justify to someone else

and im too much of a square bear to have any

so is nice to look at other folk piercings/tattoos

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