I'm in Australia visiting my mum at the moment. She is generally a good cook who prepares fairly tasty food. She is competent rather than talented, but generally I have no complaints whatsoever and am grateful that she is looking after us so well while we are staying with her (me, husband, DS and DD)
We have a lot of extra family flying in and coming for dinner tonight, as my daughter is to be baptised tomorrow morning. My mother spent a fair bit of time last night browning off some beef and veg etc for a casserole to go in the slow cooker. There was quite a volume of it because of the large amount of people coming to dinner.
When I was preparing breakfast this morning, she turned the slow cooker on and it dawned on me that she had, after browning it and generally preparing it last night, left it out of the fridge, overnight, ready to cook for a very long time at a very low heat over the course of today, as she "didn't have room in the fridge" for it.
I'm not generally paranoid about food preparation and food germs etc, and will happily make a sandwich from Sunday's roast even up to Wednesday lunch for myself (cast iron stomach) but I have got a certificate in food safety and I dont like to think about how long this meat has been hovering about in the "danger zone"
Should I be worried about myself, my 90 year old grandmother, 2 and a half year old son (thank god the baby is too young for it) among others eating it the night before an important family event? I feel I'm damned if I do and damned if I dont. If I "let" them eat it, and they get poisined, the baptism will not go ahead though that may be the least of our worries, then I'll wish I hadn't, but if I dont, and ruin it for my mother, I'll be called paranoid and drama queen etc and my dad etc will eat it anyway and will no doubt be fine and they'll be very "I told you so" etc.
WTF do I do, and AIBU? What would you do?