Have name changed as could be easily indentifed.
Background - friendly with woman who gave birth to child no 4 at beginning of December last year. Agreement had been in place since September that she would do morning school run and I would do evenings. I asked her when no 4 came along (after the baby was born) if it would be easier if I made arrangements for my own child to go with someone else in the mornings and had actually managed to find a place at a breakfast club. She was adamant that she didn't want that to happen and everything would be ok and was insistent that I cancel the breakfast club place. Another friend since then has been roped into doing the morning run since then. Which is fine and dandy but original woman has made no effort to do school run and expects other arrangements to be made when this woman can't do it. I can no longer do the mornings as I have to be at work. She lives near me and her kids are in my house all the time, they practically lived here last summer from morning til night with food thrown in. I dread every holiday as I know the children will want to come in and play (we have a trampoline etc). I feel horrible when I say no. She does as little as possible and plays the woe is me card all the time. I do lots for her and have the children when she needs to go out etc but I am starting to feel used and put upon.
As far as I am aware there is no pnd. She just wants everyone to do all the running around whilst she swans about shopping, going to the gym (has a creche) or visting her mother (a sprightly 50 year old).