novicemama, I am very glad your dd is well.
However, please stop talking rubbish. there has NEVER BEEN ANY SUGGESTION OF A LINK BETWEEN MMR AND AUTISM. (sorry for shouting, but this point really doesn't sink in, it would sem)
Wakefield SUGGESTED a link between mmr and AUTISTIC ENTERCOLITIS, a new form of bowel disease.
He said he thought it was worht further investigation.
he also said, that for a sub group of children, giving singles was probably safer.
That's it. That's all he said.
So all this "people who say they have done research and still don't give mmr are thick" shit is just that - shit.
people can do the research, and come to the same conclusions as Wakefield - it is a possibility (and his research has not been discredited, btw. the science was described AT THE GMC TRIAL as "good science, which still stands". his methods actually adhere to criteria for good practice layed down over a decade later, never mind at the time.)
And given that the government, and the media, and the science community seem to want to ignore the exostence of this subgroup (you should try getting treatment for a GI disorder in an ASD child), then you cannot blame parents with a fmaily history of immune issues for being cautios.
I will not offer up my children as sacrifices to bolster a herd immunity statistic, which is probabl irrelevant anyway.
what are oyur sources for saying singles uptake is low? No data can ever be got from the dept of health on this, as no centralised records held.