I'm due today to have my dc. Not a twinge. Unsurprisingly I'm fed up with my whale-like status and getting grumpy.
I have been getting have you had it yet texts and messages for a week, I'v begun ignoring them. Why they think I'd secretly have the baby without mentioning it to anyone I don't know.... I've even left an update on facebook asking people not to ask as it's getting me down, I'll tell them straight away.
One friend is particularly sending me over the edge. I've been ignoring her calls for a few days now as I'm fed up to the back teeth with being asked in a disappointed voice by everyone if I'm STILL pregnant. I've told her weeks ago I'm getting fed up and when people ask it's rubbing it in that I'm feeling so huge and tired and baby-less. Today her text said that she will be visiting (she moved away a few years ago, few hundred miles away) with finance (who I'm not particularly keen on) on Friday or Saturday to see the (as yet unborn!) baby. Asked me to chose which day was best. AIBU in thinking this is way out of line? Firstly I may not have even had the bloody baby (seems likely...) and secondly even if I have I might not want a visit, especially if there's difficulties. I know it's a long journey and she won't be around again for weeks, but I still think it's off. I sent back 'hang on, I'll look into my crystal ball and see if he has been born and how I feel'. She's in a big huff and said I was unreasonable as she was 'only asking' (for the zillionth time) and 'it's the only time I'm free to see the baby'. So...who's unreasonable?