Seriously, i'm not one for violence but
Last year exsil lost her job and became hooked on the internet, during this time ,her and dbro decided to split, it was to be amicable and she was to stay in the area.
Exsil decided she couldnt stay in the house and wanted to get away so dbro paid for a cottage for the six weeks hols 350 miles away. (he had his dd for 3 of those weeks)
Turns out it wasnt a holiday let, it was long term and she'd met somebody else, in the meantime she ran up £7000 on dbros credit card funding her new life.
When all this came out she told him to ask his dd what she wanted to do (after having the place sold to her as a holiday for weeks) His dd of course said she wanted to move to where they were.
Dbro agreed to all this,(I went mad, shes only 8 ffs ! ) he didnt want his dd to resent him and bought them a house outright in wales,pays £400 a month maintenance on top of this he buys her clothes etc.
All he asked in return was that his ex met him half way when he picks his dd up, it's too far for him to drive frequently in one day plus he can't afford it after he gave her over and above what he should have so his dd would be settled (if they'd have split the house she'd only have got about 50 grand )
Now shes saying 'I can't afford it, its too far, can't you stay in a hotel etc, whine, whine, whinge !'
The bloody greedy cow !! She couldnt keep her legs shut, took his child 350 miles away which he has been supportive in and she can't be bothered getting off her arse and enabling contact, she has taken his life away and left him broken, her family are so disgusted the've washed their hands of her (and they don't know about the other man, d'bro isnt malicious and hasnt told them)
So would I be unreasonable to implement torture by shoving a rolled up wodge of money down her ungrateful cow neck ?!!
Seriously, how many people can say theyre mortgage free at the age of 35 and all theyre asked in return is to drive a 350 mile round trip once a month ??!! Grrr