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to be lonely without DH...

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KorkiiEffenkrakers · 15/05/2010 21:18

.... even though he has only gone out for the evening for the first time in about a year and a half. Ok I know I am but why am I so mental?

We don't get out much as have a 7 month old plus older child with medical needs. Before the baby was born I had a pregnancy from hell do neither of us got out. Since then (apart from work) we've either socialised together (rarely) or sat in together (mostly).

Tonight DH is off out to a gig (one of his favourite musicians whom he kind of hero worships). I am very glad that he is out for his own sake but I am BORED without him.

I can't seem to settle at anything. It's weird. I lived on my own for 4 years and didn't even meet him until I was 31. Tell me to catch a grip of myself! Half the time if he is here, we're doing separate things anyway. Argh! it's annoying!

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TopsyKretts · 15/05/2010 21:20

It's because you luuuuuuuuuurve him

yellowishpurple · 15/05/2010 21:22

Aaah, I think it's nice that you miss him. Most people I know don't like their partners very much anymore.

Am a bit jealous TBH!

KorkiiEffenkrakers · 15/05/2010 21:23

Weird. I am a very unaffectionate person (except with my sons). He is always the one clinging round me and trying to hug me etc with me telling him to bugger off. Maybe I do really love him. Won't tell him though - he might get cocky

Don't want to lose my sense of being ok on my own though. I used to spend entire weekends on my own and be fine with it.

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