AIBU to think teacher should have told me not another adult?

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Ok prepared to be flamed here.

On Friday I collected DS 5 from after school club (ASC) which is run from the sure start centre for 4 local schools in local area. ASC leader said teacher had asked het to tell me DS had had a bad day and been in trouble. (they have a sad side thing)

Last week a child pushed my DS into a table and bruised and cut his ribcage and the teacher didn't tell me or his mum this. I did get an accident form saying he'd 'bumped himself!'

AIBU to think the teacher should be talking to me and not telling another adult about this?

Oh and sleepinglions I write those emails very quickly and only as necessary during times when students are at a specials class or have gone home for the day. And it's not "endless notes to mummy" . Only as necessary.

And before you ask, today is a late start day and I've prepared very meaningful, valuable lessons for my class already today.

Thanks for advice starexpat. I too am happy with the school which is why I sought advice before acting. You know what its like don't want to be the parent that grumbles unnessecarily!

Two days in this week and no 'cloud' so hoping it was a once off bad day. and that if anything comes up she'll ring me and we can work out what to do about it.

I had to ring school today about DS' allergy test results and nothing was said so

Love the idea of emails etc I am doing my early years practice degree at the mo and we are just talking about ICT so I could talk about how it could increase parents as partners relationships and even use a RL experience as an example.

YANBU at all. Ask to see their confidentiality policy.