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Original poster

to judge, and be irrationally pissed off, that DSs offered school...

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ASecretLemonadeDrinker · 14/05/2010 16:41

doesn't wear ties? I went to private school and we were up to our eyeballs in straw hats, blazers, tunics etc. and the only 'uniform' DS seems to get is a logo jumper. Underneath they have the choice of a polo shirt, or a shirt, but the shirt looks so scruffy without a tie. When the snobbery novelty wears off I guess I will be glad I can bung a bunch of polos in the wash and quickly iron rather than deal with shirts every day, and lost ties and what not, but it's really put me off. His first choice at least has a P.E kit and ties. Go on, flame me, I am in a miserable grumpy mood

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llareggub · 14/05/2010 16:43

I went to a school that did not have a school uniform. A couple of mothers were so annoyed about this they decided upon their own uniform and sent their little darlings to school in uniform anyway. Be grateful and spend your cash on something else!

JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 14/05/2010 16:45

You'll see the benefit when you have less ironing, no tie tying, and nobody getting strangled in the playground (which is all ties are for to be fair)

Hulababy · 14/05/2010 16:46

Think of the money you'll save

DD has the full prep school uniform with hat and blazer - and tie in the winter. Costs a fortune. I like her uniform, but it does add up.

This school sound slike you get to do simple uniform, but hopefully without the hefty shopping bill.

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ASecretLemonadeDrinker · 14/05/2010 16:47

Yeah but yeah but I was going to comb his hair over and everything for the first day. I feel I have been robbed. At my old school the boys wore caps [sob]

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CheekyPinkSox · 14/05/2010 17:34

I went to a high school with Blazers, Tie, P.E Kit etc etc i hated it lol

Reallytired · 14/05/2010 17:41

I can understand that you want your child to wear a PE kit. It sounds like the hideous experience I had in primary school of doing PE in knickers and vest.

However the rest of the uniform is dead practical. Can you imagine a four year old managing a tie?

AndieWalsh · 14/05/2010 17:43

YABU. I always feel incredibly sorry for the kids I see in ties and blazers. Dressed like mini adults. So uncomfortable looking.

Lauriefairycake · 14/05/2010 17:45

I had to put my tie on at 2 and a half

Thediaryofanobody · 14/05/2010 17:51

I hate the polo top and jumper look it's such a scruffy look.

pointydog · 14/05/2010 17:51

Ties are odd. Especially on kids. Think about it.

seeker · 14/05/2010 17:53

Why the hell do people want children- particularly girl children-wearing ties? It's insane

minipie · 14/05/2010 17:54

YABU. Ties are pointless uncomfortable things. You seem to have some sort of Just William fantasy going on??

TrillianAstra · 14/05/2010 17:55

Ties for secondary school - fine.

Primary school - OTT.

LouIsOnAHighwayToHell · 14/05/2010 17:56

I wore a school uniform my whole school life. In high school we had a summer, winter, formal, sports, house sports unform then differnt stuff if you were on school teams. I liked that we wore ties. Hated the hat though. It was neat and tidy. Long socks were a bitch though in winter when it was hot.

seeker · 14/05/2010 17:57

My dd goes to the highest achieving school in the area - and the only one that does not have blazers and ties.

bronze · 14/05/2010 17:59

Agree with Trillian
You don't say if its primary or secondary.
I hate the casual look at high school.

TheFallenMadonna · 14/05/2010 18:00

I think ties are daft. Generally daft in fact, but especially for small children. I much prefer the polo shirt/sweatshirt thing.

seb1 · 14/05/2010 18:02

I surprised health & safety haven't banned ties, how did that one slip through.

undercovamutha · 14/05/2010 18:03

Ties for primary school kids is just odd. Not even sure I think its ok at secondary tbh. I had to wear a tie at secondary, and have never worn one since. Can't see the purpose. DD wears pinafore and polo shirt, and looks very smart. A tie would just be wierd.

Plus all that happens with ties is they get tied too short or too long, or the wrong way round, or loose around the neck ....all for peer-pressure fashion.

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ASecretLemonadeDrinker · 14/05/2010 18:03

It's primary. I don't think I could pin him down at 11 for a comb over! I would judge more if they had girls in ties, I hate that. I hate it so much I would refuse to send a daughter with a tie - what's wrong with blouses? I was going to buy a steam press and everything. Couple of drier balls and I'll be right now!

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pointydog · 14/05/2010 18:05

I don't like polo shorts and sweatshiorts at secondary though.

I like blouses/shirts. Black and white uniform at the dds' school and I like that. Smart.

lazylula · 14/05/2010 18:07

My ds1 will be wearing a tie when he starts school in Sept, he will be having the elasticated ready tied tie to begin with which will cost all of £2.50! He gets to wear polo shirts in the summer, but Winter it is ties, shirts and jumpers. I think the school looks smart and far better than the schools locally that have gone over to jogging bottoms as uniform, which children stay in for pe.

TheFallenMadonna · 14/05/2010 18:14

I don't mind polo shirts and sweatshirts at secondary either. Time enough to be uncomfortable after they leave school. I am clearly a slattern.

seeker · 14/05/2010 18:14

And to be serious for a minute - OP, I know you're joking, but just in case you're not, you've got til September to get your head straightened up about this, or you and your ds are both going to be very unhappy.

pointydog · 14/05/2010 18:19

Everyone looks AWFUL in a sweatshirt

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