in getting my coil removed and not telling DH?

[SneakyDave]

DH has agreed to start trying for number two 'whenever SneakyDave feels ready'. So theoretically this means now (although we have discussed trying for another we haven't actually said we are activly trying). DS is 8 and a half months.

Now, I think it'd be quite nice for there to be a surprise pregnancy and not tell him we're flying without wings, so to speak. But then again there is something nagging at me saying that although he's agreed in thoery, theory and realitly sometimes don't hold hands well.

He does love surprises, and I do definitely know he wants another.

But, should I tell him we're trying??

Ps - Just off to put DS down for a nap so will be back in a bit.

at skidoodly

Promise wasn't a wind up, I think my idea of 'a nice surprise' is probably different to most people's! I've booked an appointment to get it removed and spoke to him during his lunch break to tell him I've made the appointment. He was very pleased and is looking forward to commencing the shagging. Hooray! Secretly I think he's pleased to be getting some regular action again!

Glad I told him now, he's really excited.

I also thought 'sneakydave' was his name for his penis!! I though WTF how does a penis know when the time is right

Anyway, I think you should, it would be nice for it to be a complete suprise (as he's already said he's ready when you are! If he hadn't I'd be doing the cats bum mouth too!!). This way you can have lots of fun getting pregnant without him thinking you are only doing it to get pregnant!! Then you get to give him a brilliant suprise

MrsVidic - did you read the post? He has said he is ready. She isn't betraying and deceiving him - she just wanted him to be happily suprised - he wants another baby.

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Have fun!!

But saying you want one and actually trying for one is a different matter! OP, great decision. Happy shagging!

Ps - ChippingIn, if I'd read your post before I told him I might've acted differently!

I'm very happy now. Thanks ladies, I think it's made a difference that he is really excited about it too and we can enjoy it together. DS was a Christmas present.