Late last week I was told their was a possibility that I may have cancer, as I have a "mass" in my ribs and my blood results are showing to be abnormal, (was told this is the worse case scenario) but still worrying all the same, told friends,(who are all dh cousins, so family also) after I had a little cry due to stress of it all, when we were at another's friends dinner party. "come dine with me night".
Im going for my ultra sound on Monday, and not one of them has phoned asking how I am, or even a txt message to say thinking of you on Monday, nothing!
Im just really upset as I thought I have a relatively good support network when it came to my friends, they were my bridesmaids at my wedding and I was theirs etc.. we have been friends for 15 years and Im a bit about it all.
And to boot also, my closest friends sister (so my cousin inlaw) has just had a baby boy today at 9am and not one text to say she had him, I had to find out of face book, although when on the phone to another friends she received a txt from closest friend.
I know cancer is a taboo and upsetting not ALL involved, but maybe I am asking too much for just some moral support