to be upset at being called a 'slapper'?

[foreverastudent]

At parents and toddlers' group this morning one of the Mums said she overheard a child at our children's school asking her mum "Is he my new Daddy?". The group then proceeded to slag off single parents/mums with kids by different men. The Mum who made the original comment then called such women 'slappers'. Everyone else laughed.

They don't know me very well and obviously didn't realise that I was a single mum before I met my current partner, with whom I've had another child.

I was so I didn't say anything.

I know I should just brush this off, but I've been feeling quite depressed recently and was hoping that by going to this group I could make soem new friends and not feel so
lonely isolated. I can see that's not going to happen now.

had similar experience with a precious moment mama.chuffing on about working mums and babies in nursery.why bother having em and all that

most amusing

Lol at Tulips, are you Irish? Or living in Ireland?

YANBU small minded cows.

There are millions of 'slappers' around then! I have always told my dc that if the people don't matter to you, their comments don't either. I have 2 by 2 (one violent, one cheat) and am happily married to neither. What does that make me...

a bad judge of character

the problem with this thread is heaping stereotypes like frigid/smug/bitches doesn't actually redress the unfairness of the original comment

and some on here are being just as judgemental - one unkind comment doesn't mean you pile in with more stereotypical comment

Aw foreverstudents god this woman obviously regressed back to playground behavior. Don't be embarrased, it's her problem not yours. I'm sure not everyone in the group felt the same way- some people get a bit cowardly in situations where bullies are lording it about just so they don't get targetted themselves. Stick with it hun, I'm sure you'll meet some nice mums soon
YANBU x

You should just tell that snobby stuck up CUNT to get to Fuck!!!
Im sick of these flowery skirt wearing 4x4 driving snobs thinking their better than everyone else, i had my ds at 18, and i went to a mother and toddler group that my mothers neighbour rail-rolled me into, and i hated it!!!, They all looked down their big noses at me, and thought i was shit! Luckily my mother tagged along and made it well known i worked right up until ds head was practically hanging out (i know TMI!), and that i had went back to college to get my highers after he was born!!! Even though i dressed like 'vicky pollard' i wasn't her lol!!! Just ignore them, their husbands are probebly shagging their secreterys!!! (ive probebly spelt that wrong!, im on dp's stellas tonight, lol!) It makes me soooo mad when people are judgementel!!!

LOL,you really told them hen.all that y'all cunts you look really brainy

bet them snobby cunts are quaking in their kitten heels

this is mad.

in response to slapper

some of you squawk
cunt
bitches
their husband shag us slappers

with all due respect puerile name calling does a legit case no good to resort to.just as bad as the woman who said slapper

who knows maybe the woman in question is a bit of a cock stop and can accommodate many.maybe thats her thang

ummm.... they call you a slapper. and you call them frigid.
what? i think that would reinforce their feelings about you as a slapper! calling them frigid is irrelevant....

they are of course being horrible bitchy women who need a kick up the arse. if you were strong enough to ditch an arsehole first partner and find a loving, caring second one, you should be applauded, and they can SUCK IT.

So it is ok to call them smug marrieds but not ok for them to call unmarried mothers with multiple kids by multiple men slappers funny old world.
My RL best friend has 3 kids by 3 dads and only married the last one, she is not a slapper (just really bad taste in men)

I am separated from DH but he is the father of both our children so could someone please tell me which label I should have????

They do not sound nice, why would you want to be friends with them?