hello! I can't NOT post on this thread! (look at my name)
I am in the camp of those who think it is ridiculous that teachers are NOt allowed to tell parents if they spot lice on their child.against their human rights my ar*e - had I had a busy week and not checked and missed something i would WANT to be told.
they shoudl be sent home for breaking the rule on "no pets to be brought into school grounds". there is a child in DD1s class who regularly takes live ones off his head and has them running about on the desk playing with them!!!
Why can we not have an opt in clause to sign on our school contact form saying "I give permission for my child to be sent home/me to be informed if the teacher sees headlice" or something.most people I know would go for this!
Sadly headlice are not seen as a serious enough issue, despite the fact that having them long term can be debilitating, uncomfy and make one feel "absolutely lousy" - the original meaning of the word, along with the social stigma of other kids knowing and avoiding or taunting the child in question
No parent should be treating with pesticide on a regular basis though - not good for the child and the lice can beconme resistant to specific preparations
far better to just groom carefully 2 or 3 times a week with conditioner on wet hair, prevention is better than cure. this way lice are removed before they are big enough to reproduce and/or adult lice picked up that day are damaged or removed before eggs are laid
tea tree oil applied neat on a comb, or in a spray bottle with water is a great deterent, as is eating lots of garlic. tea tree in shampoos and conditioners need not be expensive - tesco do one, or buy the cheapest conditioner you can find and add some neat tea tree oil to it
and ALL schools have their families who are never treated. they did when i was at school 30 years ago, when i was teaching 15 yrs ago, and still do now. And they are just as prevalent in posh boarding schools as they are in deprived inner city schools, though it may be true that some parents cannot afford treatments, and others lack the intelligence to know what to do. some just cannot be bothered.
dont wait for the letter home, check your Dc regularly anyway!