Ok, long story, DD (almost 1) bought a nasty cold home from nursery or somewhere, I caught it and it became tonsilitus = antibiotics and a day off work sick.
Ex-H caught it, and according to him it has become sinusitis, and now, according to him, he cannot be expected to get out of bed or do anything as if he does 'it will infect his brain'.......
for my tea?
Jx