AIBU to be a little tiny bit gleeful about exdh's pain?

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am i??
he has had a foot/leg operation and has text today to say he is in an awful lot of pain and is signed off work for 12 weeks.
i cant help a little evil smile on my face.

Not only is he the biggest liar and cheating sod there is. but he is a terrible patient and i actually feel very sorry for his gf who will be looking after him.

he cant drive or walk far and will be stuck in his poxy one bed flat for weeks and weeks.

hahaha.

also, i have had countless operations over tthe years from which i recieved no sympathy or help from him. not even when i had my c section. i was doing washing and hoovering the day i came out of hospital.

mean, but warranted?

oh i dont generally give two hoots about him. he text to let me know so i could pass message onto dd. i only needed to know that he was at home, he chose to elaborate.

i dont care at all, i just find it very amusing.

yes - he is still serving. have no idea about wages being docked etc.... dont care, tis not my problem

;)

Yanbu. Even better though would be if his gf pissed off in his hour of need:0

Shoptildrop

I join you in appreciating a bit of karma.

The best revenge, especially for someone who sounds as awful as him, is living well.

I'd personally be rollerskating, cycling and tap dancing past his sick bed on a regular basis, having lots of noisy fun but paying him no attention whatsoever.

And as for his previoual behaviour, if it came ot the moral high ground he wouldn't have a leg to stand on...arf!

lol.

i really do like the idea of casually tap dancing past his sick bed.

He has text to say he will be ok to have dd next weekend. his gf will drive to pick her up ( he will be in the car) but it will be a quiet weekend as he cant really walk and wont be able to for 12 weeks.

hahaha. i shall maybe tell him in off out to do something fablous that weekend, so if he or dd need me and i dont pick up my phone to call my mother.
( and i am actually doing fablous things next weekend.. so its not a lie. night out on friday night. Spa day saturday. Sunday - lunch with friend and shopping probably ending in a pub garden. )

and he is in a toe to thigh cast on one leg.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

I bloody love karma, I do

yanbu
i would have a spring in my step if i was to hear that the 'man' who hurt my child and abused me was in pain! in fact, there's always hope...

Karma is bang on target again...

Of course you have every right to enjoy his pain. And you must pretend to have sympathy to his face so he always knows you are morally in tact!! But if he hurt you and your child I may accidentally kick him too.

well i havent laughed in his face. ive made no comment to him about it at all really. other than im sure he will feel better in a week.

i am so over him and have lovely boyfriends. i was over him before i left him.

im just enjoying this situation.