I'm a very romantic person and my DH used to be too until we got married. Now the problem is that in our 2 years of marriage he has never bought me flowers or cards or chocolates or anything cute. He's a very calculated person and keeps track of each penny he spends. Sometimes also tells me that I should cut down even on essentials. In the beginning I thought that these things aren't important but now I've developed this feeling that if I want him to show lil gestures there's nothing wrong with it.
We didn't celebrate valentine's, my birthday or his birthday because we were short on cash (but he still managed to spend a hefty amount on his brother's wedding) and I just feel that a stem of rose wouldn't have cost that much.
Plus he says that if I remind it he'll buy it for me. And when I do remind him he says its difficult to park the car and go all the way since there aren't any decent flower shops around (which is not true). Plus the street beggars will annoy him once he gets out of the car to buy flowers and so on.
Am I being unreasonable if I feel that he just doesn't want to give any input in our relationship? And needs excuses to blame everything on others (mostly me).