I'm becoming more annoyed at my friend and not sure if im being over sensitive here! She was a bridesmaid at my wedding and we were really close friends, since then I have had 2 children and she has been single so our lives have kind of been on different tracks with her still going out heaps etc, anyway she has now met someone and is getting married, which is great. They have decided to get married in OZ in december which is obviously peak time to travel but I have said that of course we will all go. DH and I were looking at tickets and to get us all there is going to cost an absolute fortune, probably too much for us to afford, I haven't told her this yet. Anyway I was talking to her last week and she just casually said that she was going dress shopping this week with three friend, two who she works with and one who is currently living with her - I was really put out, think she realised slightly as she then said why don't you come too, I said I would love to. She hasn't mentioned it again since and it is now tomorrow night, I just emailed her and asked her if she was still going and she said she was but no mention of are you coming or where shall we meet or anything like that. so I am feeling a bit put out by the whole thing, AIBU do you think? Just feel she was a big part of my wedding, I am agreeing to pay a fortune and fly my family to the other side of the world for her wedding and she hasn't even asked me to go dress shopping with her!!! am i being petty do you think?