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To not give my sister a lift?

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spookycharlotte121 · 07/04/2010 09:04

I have been up for 3 nights now with dd who is poorly. (am a single mum so there is only me to do it) I have a 2.8 yr old ds so when dd finally settles I then have to get up with him and am exhausted.

My sister has a job interview today and I agreed last week when she told me that I would have her dd for her whilst she went. She then called me up this morning about half an hour before she is due at the interview asking for a lift. She says she has no monney to pay for parking. problem is when I say no she still carries on nangging.
Whilst i sympathise with her dilemma there is only so much I can do. Her dd'd car seat wont fit in my car with my two so she would have to sit without one which im not comfortable about. I also think that she has had a fair amount of notice of the interview and should have put a few quid by for the car park.

She always mkaes me feel so guilty when I say no and will be rude to me now. Just wondering AIbU to say no.

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spookycharlotte121 · 07/04/2010 10:22

It is for some bank work for nursing so will be a bit here and there..... im guessing i will be called upon at some point to help out.

not sure where she got the monney from but she obviously found some!!

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QuintessentialShadow · 07/04/2010 11:20

Charlotte, you are a kind soul. Dont lend money if you cant afford to GIVE the money away.

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