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to think people don't understand what discrimination is?

67 replies

StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:05

in this country you can't discriminate against ginger people, football fans, b&b owners, pets, pandas or Daily Mail readers!

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muddleduck · 06/04/2010 13:26

is this a challenge?

Iklboo · 06/04/2010 13:28

School holidays innit

tethersend · 06/04/2010 13:29

You can if you try.

StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:30

no not a challenge!
on any thread about discrimination people talk about how it's ok to discriminate against pet owners, drunks & nick griffin.

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StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:31

you can be nasty. bully. refuse services. but you cant discriminate. it isn't discrimination

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muddleduck · 06/04/2010 13:43

depends on whether you are just using a particular (narrow) legal definition of 'discrimination' or using it in the everyday sense of "treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit"

StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:45

I do see your point, but it is ridiculous to talk about discriminating against pets, or individuals (which is what drunks are in the context of a B&B)

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MorrisZapp · 06/04/2010 13:46

Can you state clearly what this thread is about?

StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:46

and in theory, if it's not 'discrimination' then it's OK to not allow service - e.g. as a B&B owner I could refuse to allow access to all 'drunks'. It isn't OK when that group is 'homosexuals', 'Christians' or even 'BNP members'

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muddleduck · 06/04/2010 13:46

I think I agree with you - except for the bit about 'gingers'

muddleduck · 06/04/2010 13:48

x-posts ... now I'm confused.

FioFio · 06/04/2010 13:48

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StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:49

sorry MZ
It#'s a thread about a lot of threads, usually relating to discrimination where it's clear that people don't understand what discrimination is and isn't.
Obviously what brought it to mind is the B&B one where people are saying they are discriminated against because they have pets, or should B&B owners have to admit anyone - does that include violent drunks etc etc.
Might not be clear but I am tired. Hopefully it is at least there

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StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:52

muddleduck would it help or confuse you more if I confess to being a little bit ginger??

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StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:53

what confused you? My general drunken ramblings (I'll be OK to slip into a B&B as long as I'm behind a group of lesbians) or the eloquence and highbrowness of my argument?

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muddleduck · 06/04/2010 13:53

That depends on whether you feel it is possible for you to be discriminated against on the grounds of gingerness?

StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 13:54

no
cos gingerness isn't grounds for discrimination in the same way as being disabled, a lesbian, a Christian, or, much as it pains me, a member of the BNP.

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probonbon · 06/04/2010 13:56

well plainly you can and plainly you aren't quite sure what discrimination is yourself

are you really drunk on a Tuesday lunchtime?

heavens above

StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 14:00

no, not unless you count decaff coffee?
Not sure what you mean about 'plainly you can'?

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muddleduck · 06/04/2010 14:00

why not?

StealthPolarBear · 06/04/2010 14:02

if I go to a B&B and am refused entry because I am a ginger, I can argue. I can be angry. I can take my custom loudly elsewhere. I can give them poor reviews. I can write them a strongly worded letter. They have behaved very very badly. But they haven;t discriminated, until they find out I'm a black, Christian lesbian guinea pig with one leg and refuse me a room for that reason.

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tethersend · 06/04/2010 14:03

If I didn't get a job because I am ginger, that would be discrimination.

If someone said they didn't like my hair, that would not be discrimination.

probonbon · 06/04/2010 14:03

ho just trying to impress us i see how it is

well you can though

treating one person differently because they belong to a certain group is discrimination

it is one of those things that kinda works both ways

muddleduck · 06/04/2010 14:05

if you go to a B&B and are refused entry because you are ginger then THAT IS DISCRIMINATION

probonbon · 06/04/2010 14:05

ooh look what I did

if you're being post ironic then I've failed your test completely

but you mean in the general view of the world it doesn't count, but the general view of the world is wrong?

your decaff has gone to my head now