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to feel like SHITE because the DCs are going to have a SHITE school holiday!!

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BigMommaOfAlmost4 · 05/04/2010 21:26

Am almost 6 months pregnant and SPD just started, DH works 12 hour days and is only off on weekends, we are moving on Saturday so still have ALL the packing to do (always do everything at the last minute!) and have no money left due to aforementioned move. The DCs are going to have such a shite time off school and I feel terrible because of it .

Normally we would have gone to stay with family but can't because of the above. Normally I would have done fun things with them like going for bike rides and for days out but can't because of the above (obviously can't ride while this pregnant and am very peed off about it!). Normally I would put them in some sporting activities but can't because of no money! We have no family nearby (nearest is two hours away and I can't stand them!) and we do not see the DSs (age 8) friends during the holidays as I have never really got friendly enough with the other mums to arrange something. DD is 13 and will not bugger off out to play with her mates and only wants to go on bloody facebook (apparently all her friends are staying at home on facebook too, no one is doing anything over the holidays ).

So they are going to be home most of the time glued to the TV/computer, eating chocolate and being pretty bored. Why, oh why do I feel so sorry for them and like I'm letting them down??

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EveWasFramed · 06/04/2010 13:44

My parents never planned anything for me for school hols, and as a result, I am an adult who is very rarely bored. I had to find my own stuff to do, and I'm so glad for it...letting your kids just BE and letting them find their own fun is so much better long term. Even my two, only 3 and 2...I haven't hovered over them all week...they've had some activities with me, but for a lot of the day, I've encouraged them to play with each other and find things to do. The couch is destroyed as they've built a huge cushion fort, there are toys and books everywhere...and they've had a fine time, while I've been able to potter around and do what I need to.

helyg · 06/04/2010 14:12

I agree that kids need time to be bored.

Last week we went away on a short break, so did lots of "activities" eg went to the cinema, DS1(7) did a soccer camp thingy, DS2 & DD (5 and 4) had swimming lessons, we went to soft play etc.

So this week we are having a "chill out" week. We've done some odds and sods, for example they've been helping me in the garden (we have a new raised bed so are able to grow veg properly for the first time), DS1 has just made banana bread (with some supervision) and is now washing up the stuff he used, DS2 and DD are making the-biggest-lego-castle-in-the-world-ever Mark II, oh and we've eaten rather a lot of chocolate...

nannynobnobs · 06/04/2010 14:48

Don't forget den building. Sheets/duvet covers, clothes pegs, chairs, clothes horse etc. My DDs would live in a den all year round if possible.
I'm not pregnant but I have not organised a single thing to do with them this holiday (apart from the easter egg hunt which took about five minutes!)

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