This is a long story so I will try and be as brief as possible...
Basically, I have a medical condition that has left me very poorly for over a year. Although doctors diagnosed early on what the problem was, they made several mistakes, gave me the wrong treatment and have caused many delays. They refused to believe how ill I said I was and told me most of my symptoms were caused by depression (sessions of therapy showed in fact that I was in excellent mental health) which has since been proved to be untrue - all symptoms were due to my medical condition. I was refused referral to specialists for six months and only when I threatened legal action and was finally examined properly the full extent of the damage of my illness was made clear.
I have taken legal advice and as I have written proof and evidence, I am told that if I were to make a claim against the NHS, I would definately get a large payout.
I am a single mother who had a successful freelance career. For the last year I have been in hospital for a total of six weeks, been unable to walk far and use a stick to walk, unable to drive and unable to work as my eyesight is now very poor. I will require 3 operations and it will take several months to regain my health and I am told the battering my body has taken will shorten my life expectancy by between 5 and 10 years.
What I want is my health and my life back. I want an apology for the mistakes and the manner in which I was treated. I want to know what they are going to do to make sure this does not happen again.
So do I sue?
Arguements against it is that while financially it has been a struggle, I managed and when I am well again I should be able to go back to work as normal. I want to get on with my life and do not fancy a long and drawn out legal battle. I do not like the idea that people sue everyone these days and mistakes just happen sometimes, money won't fix it. I am uncomfortable with taking money from the NHS.
Arguements for it are that this has been the most awful time and I have been almost housebound for a year which need not have been the case if I had had the right treatment. My children have suffered from me being unable to look after them and our home well during this time and for some time to come yet. This should not have happened, the medical professionals in my care made several awful mistakes in treating me. I lost my income and many work opportunities at an important time in my career. The money would allow me to pay off most of my mortgage and set me and my sons up in a financially good position for the future.
So, what would YOU do? x